Thursday 9 April 2015

Mingalaba!



A fortnight in Myanmar


Despite the emotional goodbyes in Nakhon Sawan I was fortunate enough to have a month of exploration ahead of me, and have some time alone to process the past eighteen months and what the plan might be for the next.  I spent the first fortnight of March in marvelous Myanmar.




I arrived at my hostel with 4 hours to spare before check in time, so I found a nearby cafe for a coffee and my first taste of delicious Myanmar food, and my first taste of an unusual custom, kissing sounds to get a waiter’s attention.  You can imagine my surprise when I walked in and heard a sound that, in my part of the world, is considered sexual harassment and worthy of a slap.  When I saw the waiter bustling towards the offending noise I realised I was not being taunted, but some dude just wanted a coffee. A couple of hours in I was already bored of cyber space and itching to sleep, I returned to hostel to fall asleep in the reception area and hoped the staff would feel pity, it worked and I was asleep by noon. I woke, refreshed and ready to check out Yangon. I settled in at a table on a street side restaurant, enticed by the foamy beers being distributed to the tables around me. The staff avoided me, and it didn't take long to understand why. It seemed nobody spoke English, which is fair enough; I don't speak Myanmar so I had to expect some language barriers. All I wanted was something from their grill and some beer; I could have pointed if they'd given me half a chance. While they argued with each other about who would serve me I removed myself from the situation and found a small place across the road, where I could bring my own beer and enjoy a plate of Shan Noodles which was recommended to me by the waitress.



Next day I met an old colleague, who now lives in Yangon, for a trip on the circle train which travels in a loop around the city and for a couple of hundred kyat you can board a train that gives an up close insight into Yangon daily life, with market traders carrying trays on their heads, boarding to sell some refreshing watermelon to passengers. On board it dawned on me that I had not booked a room for that evening so, in a Tasmanian Devil style whirl, I doubled back to sort accommodation. My brain fell asleep you see, it was all the end of term, end of contract, got to get my life packed up, move out, and go backpacking moving and shaking that did it. As soon as I reached Yangon my brain considered itself to be on holiday. Once a bed was secured for the night we picked up where we left off with our lazy, people-watching train ride. We stopped for a lunch break and had an amazing buffet at Feel Myanmar, before a bit more exploring and a bbq dinner on 19th Street, which is famed for the BBQ restaurants that line each side of the road. To top off the evening, we took a taxi ride through heavy traffic commuting Yangon style (cars zigzagging around a roundabout in a 'first one to barge through gets right of way' system) to the Vista rooftop bar for cocktails with a view of Shwe Dagon Pagoda. You know how I feel about cocktails and panoramic views, put them together and you have a perfect evening.



After a good night's sleep and a hot shower I was on my way to Inle Lake. Meeting my friend and having a good old catch up was the highlight of my visit to Yangon, but I didn't find it the kind of place I would consider a vacation spot, too busy with transport issues. Although the circle train was enjoyable, as a means of commuting it would grow old very quickly, and taking taxis consistently involves a haggle over the fare. With this point in mind I found Yangon to be a bit overbearing, but I guess I'm more of a rural holidaymaker, as I was to learn on my next stop.



My overnight bus to Inle Lake was packed and my seat was faulty, so some very tangled sleeping positions aided only 4 hours of slumber. I was so grateful that my guesthouse could check me in on arrival at 6am. I slept hard til noon.




I woke famished so I went next door to a little roadside cafe and ordered avocado salad, and was so excited at the sight of an entire plate of guacamole, which I devoured with crispy deep fried tofu slices. Feeling energised, I hired a bike and cycled to Red Mountain winery, stopping along the way for photographs, and to take in the gorgeous landscape. After a wander amongst the vines, I enjoyed a tasting selection of four wines, plus two additional glasses of Inle Rose, which was my favourite. I met an interesting lady and we chatted about life, the Universe, and everything. I think the wine loosened our tongues so the conversation went in a personal direction, where she discussed her desire to settle down and have a family. She told me she was worried about leaving security behind in favour of more long term travel as, if she were to meet someone and settle down, she'd need savings to fund her future family. I understood her insecurities, and when she asked me about my motivation to leave it all behind, my answer was, "whatever is meant for me is not back home right now, and I'll waste my life if I sit around and wait for that part of my life to progress". The only things you can't control the timing of are love and death. I don't see the point in waiting around for either. Ya gotta do whatcha gotta do, and they'll find you eventually.



We supped up and cycled back after sunset, racing against the darkness. I bid farewell, and good luck, to my new friend and arrived in the village just as wisps of red light sunk into the horizon. Dinner of mutton curry was accompanied by many tiny dishes, most of which I could live my life without knowing of their existence (e.g. teeny tiny fried fish that tasted like an entire bottle of fish sauce downed for a dare), but the pickled mango was a welcome addition, so I tucked in and washed it all down with a bottle of Mandalay Strong Beer, 'strong' is an understatement. All I was fit for was bed, so I pedalled back to my digs and slept soundly.



Next morning I had no agenda so I took my trusty steed and cycled in the direction of the lake. After about an hour of trundling along a tiny dirt track that hugged the edges of the paddy fields, where farmers worked under the hot sun, I noticed I was completely lost. When I found myself again I realised I was on the wrong side of my map pedalling in the opposite direction. Time for a coffee break. Three hours later I emerged and set off again for a bicycle bimble, only to find (again) that I am the world champion of shite navigation. I consoled myself with an hour long massage, in a village bamboo house, where I was given delicious fried tofu and green tea. That evening I ventured out to see a marionette show, comprising of eight dances by each of the stringed artists who were controlled by just one man, a happy gentleman who, to my untrained eye, seemed very talented at his skill. 

The following morning I was collected by my boatman for a day trip on Inle Lake. We chugged our way through many watery villages where people live and run businesses in wooden buildings on stilts, it was a fascinating sight, talk about 'how the other half live'! My day was long and involved lots of interaction with market sellers, I bought a few gifts but by the end of the trip I was weary of the market stall hard sell. However, a highlight was my visit to In Shein Pagodas. At first I struggled to find them so my boat driver, who was hoping for a snooze break, walked me all the way there, an uphill journey in the midday heat. The road unfolded to reveal several pagodas, ancient and new, as far as my eyes could see. It was worth the mini trek there, and I was grateful to my boat dude for his perseverance. The return trip was lifted by a beautiful view of the fishermen on the lake. Unfortunately this was the precise moment that my camera battery decided it had had enough, so I packed it away and decided to sit back and just watch, I was mesmerised by their technique. One fisherman stopped in his tracks as I watched him, staring at me with a rather confused expression. I guess not many tourists just watch them, without shoving a camera in their faces. He stared at me as I stared at him, so I waved hello, which he reciprocated slowly, still wearing his perplexed expression. I got neither a photograph nor an insight into his fishing technique, but all one has to do is punch 'Inle Lake' into any image search engine and countless iconic images pop up in seconds. I may not have my own but I believe I shared an odd moment with my fisherman, and that's priceless, huh?  I later found out that the fishermen ask for money from tourists who take their picture, so this may explain his confusion.



The following day I decided to catch the day bus to Bagan as my experiences of night buses have not been favourable. As I watched a TV show I had loaded onto my tablet, I noticed several more passengers boarding than what the bus could seat. Then a stack of plastic stools were distributed and the extra passengers sat precariously on these for the nine hour journey. They were local people who paid a fraction of the price that tourists paid for actual seats, but it seemed like an arduous and dangerous journey for them.



I arrived in Bagan in time to check in and book myself on a boat trip for the next day.  Hired bicycle seems to be my transport of choice so why change a tradition?  I hired a bike and took off down the dusty road in the direction of Shwezigon Pagoda, just in time to watch the sun set over the golden dome.  A lady stopped me and told me I could park my bike at no charge, she basically took the bike off me and suggested I leave my shoes there too (shoes are forbidden in Buddhist places of worship).  I kind of didn’t have a choice in the matter so I thought I’d do as she said as I wanted to catch the sunset, but I may have to prepare for whatever she was plotting.  Of course, there was a catch, and when I returned to collect my bike and shoes, I found my flip flops neatly placed right in front of this woman’s stall where she was selling all kinds of tourist crap.  I politely and assertively declined, picked up my shoes and bike, and cycled off.  She didn’t like it, nor did I like being played.  She wasn’t the first wily market seller I encountered and she certainly wasn’t going to be the last, sadly.



On the next day I had a boat trip planned that was to take me to a temple in a cave, a beach, a local village and back to the river for sunset. The ‘beach’ was pretty comical, the boat pulled up at a sandy area on the river with a beautiful view of passing ferries emitting thick black smoke.  Plastic chairs were set in a line along the sand for sunbathing, and we had the opportunity to have a swim, or in actual fact, to get dragged by the strong current.  On the plus side I made acquaintances of some other passengers on the boat who milled about for my stay in Bagan, so it was nice to see a familiar face at beer o clock.  The highlight of the boat trip was the stop off at the local village.  Before docking the boat, the boys handed out some photos and information about the village.  They had devised a game where visitors and villagers could interact.  Visitors get a photo of a villager and the task is to find that person and present them with their picture.  The interactivity of the game ensured a welcome arrival and some introductions to the local people, even invites into people’s homes where those who could speak some English conversed with us.  I made some friends of cheeky little kids and their grandmother who offered me some palm sugar sweets, so I sat with the kids and we eroded our teeth as the littlest of the siblings entertained us with her cute dance moves, aka jumping like a loon.  The evening was topped off with a sunset view from a corn field overlooking the river.



Before arriving in Bagan I had read and heard about the hot air balloon rides, but factored them out thinking they would be heavily booked and expensive.  I had since spoken to some people who had only booked last minute, so I decided to make an enquiry and they had a space for me.  I withdrew the one week travel budget that it cost, closed my eyes and handed over my fat bundle of notes. On the morning of my flight I braced myself for petrification, but felt no sign of it, not whilst watching the balloons inflate, not whilst climbing into the wicker basket, and not whilst soaring through the sky in what can only be described as a giant picnic basket. It seems I'm all grown up, the Sinead Nua who scaled the wall at Bristol's Undercover Rock climbing centre wouldn't recognise me today.



I grinned maniacally during a glorious flight offering breathtaking views of just some of the 4,000 pagodas below, the only words I could utter were, "I'm in a basket in the sky!" My fellow passengers could be forgiven for thinking I was a little bit special. It was an incredible experience and I'd do it again in a heartbeat.  During a chat with my Pilot, Bill, my appetite for more balloon flights grew as he shared the top five places to fly, Bagan being one of these, and his own personal top choice, the Alps.  What a picture that would be!




Feeling elated and slightly more confident that the pagodas were easy to find I set out that afternoon on an electronic bike, kind of like a bicycle with a motor, but way less cool looking, and it was pink, ugh, here we go again…  I got lost a record number of times but, in doing so, I managed to make more sense of the map, and by sundown I thought I had it in the bag. I watched the sunset from the top of a pagoda with steps so steep that I had to scramble up, clawing at each ancient brick for dear life.  I don’t know the name of this Pagoda as, contrary to previous belief, I did not have it in the bag.  It was nowhere near the bag.





The next morning I woke with insatiable itching all over my legs. It seemed the local mosquito community had been alerted that I was in town. You know when a new restaurant opens, and you go and you have a nice meal, and you tell all your friends so they go, and the restaurant gets busier and busier? Well, I'm that restaurant and my thighs have five stars on the mosquito version of Tripadvisor.



Once I'd stopped scratching I roused myself for the sunrise view, having heard so much about it's beauty I had to see it for myself. I hired another e-bike, this one less resembling Barbie's pushbike, and went to a tall pagoda with deep steep steps. Like most of them, the name escapes me. I would drive around consulting my map, find a pagoda I had marked as recommended for viewing from, only to discover over a breakfast debrief with my new friends that I was way off. Anyway, I clambered my way up whateveritscalled and perched on the edge, just in time to see the glowing red sun rise over the pagodas that were dwarfed by this one. A special treat followed, a group of hot air balloons drifted past adding some magic to the already spectacular skyline.



I drove, bathed in the morning light, back to my guesthouse for breakfast, before heading out again for another stab at finding some good views. This time I had a clear idea of three pagodas that I wanted to see, and today there was to be no messing. I had my map, I had my internal navigation set, I was a woman with a mission.



I got lost. I got so lost I could no longer even tell where I was on the map. Sod the map, I followed my nose, and it brought me to a pagoda so tall and steep that it incited my fear of heights. I scaled to the top like King Kong on steroids, and braced myself for my first view from the top. It was terrifying. I pasted myself to the conical wall behind me standing at an obtuse angle to the ground. I tread delicately around, stopping to snap some pictures, probably mostly of the sky due to the bizarre angle in which I was standing. A painter who was selling his artwork, sand paintings, from the top approached me cautiously, sensing I was about to petrify and become a rather odd addition to this ancient structure. We shared a nice conversation and I felt a little more at ease, enough to notice his t-shirt which had the slogan, "Keep Ireland Green" and a picture of two frogs getting jiggy. It gave me a giggle, I relaxed a little, and I treated myself to a painting before preparing myself for the descent. A wave of fear whisked through me and grabbed my body. Once again I stiffened with terror. My body retreated back so I could feel the solid brick steps hugging my back. I imagined I look something like a Warner Brothers cartoon character, with my body taking on the shape of the steep steps beneath me. I froze solid and attempted an internal pep talk, when my painter friend came to my rescue. He escorted my down the steps, grabbing my arm tightly and raised slightly, sort of how a bouncer would chuck a bad drunk out of a bar. Anyone looking on from the ground would have thought I had been drunkenly slurring rebel songs at the top. I wonder if the truth is actually more embarrassing.  I swiftly jumped on my e-bike and made my way along the sandy path, leaving a trail of dust and mortification behind me. Sticking to paved roads in Bagan gives you an option of about four routes, but going off track onto the dust roads gives you an adventure, albeit a hot, dusty, and confused one, if you're anything like me. I arrived at five sided Dhammayazika Pagoda, probably the most southerly pagoda (although you’d be a fool if you believed anything I said), and stopped for some lunch.



Having been awake since 5am, it was time for a snooze so I took to my bed for 40 winks, and returned to the pagodas to find the one recommended for sunset. Yes that's right map, you have one more chance! Luck was smiling on me on my final day, luck, and a man selling paintings. Another painting angel, ready to help a lady in need. The pagoda I was seeking is a very popular one amongst tourists who want to avoid tourists, so it was obvious to him where I intended to go when he found me looking at my map in confusion. It is not as picturesque as the others, but with it's flat rooftop, it boasts one of the prettiest views in Bagan. My favourite remains Budeli, the steep monster that can almost reduce a grown woman to tears, but for obvious reasons that experience was a one off.



After a light dinner and a massage I was bound for snoozeville. I woke at 4am to an unwelcome urge to reject my dinner, 9 hours after eating it. I slept on and tentatively ate a breakfast at 8am before boarding a bus to Mandalay. So far so good, I even managed lunch. I had a feeling things weren't so good towards the end of the journey, but still felt no nausea. I arrived at my guesthouse, feeling like death's little sister, and promptly excreted the contents of my stomach, from whatever orifice that it chose. I was not the picture of beauty that day, so I stayed indoors and made use of the fast wifi connection, plotting my next trip that was coming up in just a few days, two weeks in Sri Lanka. At least there was some reason to be happy amidst the carnage that was happening to my poor body.



The following day I woke feeling human again. I ate a big breakfast, I ate like there was no tomorrow. If the waitress had stood still long enough I'd have eaten her. One of my new travel buddies was on the other side of town, so we organised to meet up and take on Mandalay on foot. We completely underestimated the vastness of the city, and the inaccuracy of our maps. We ended up walking the backroads where the locals lived. As we meandered through the dusty streets where people washed, ate, bought, and sold we were greeted by children shouting hello and shaking our hands. We stopped for a break from the midday heat and ordered Shan Noodles from a street side restaurant filled with men. Generally women don’t eat out, although Western women are welcome as it’s understood we have different customs. There was a widescreen TV on the wall showing some macho blockbuster movie, so all eyes were glued to that. As one of the only two female customers in the place I was grateful of that TV. I didn't fancy being stared at while slurping noodles and fumbling with chopsticks! After a rest and a bite to eat we set off again to find a sunset point on the river that was marked on our maps. It looked fairly straightforward, literally straight down 26th street. It wasn't. But, in getting lost we saw so much more of Mandalay than we would have if we’d stuck to taxis. We finally found the river, and a beacon of angelic light shone from the sky, hello glorious sun! A beautiful red glow spilled over the river and doused the boats that bobbed on the water. The sunset point turned out to be a bar with a deck overlooking the river. I ordered a well deserved beer and watched the sun sink down to through the cloudy sky. After sunset we jumped in a taxi and headed over to The Moustache Brothers, a once controversial comedy act comprising of three brothers (one has since passed away), two of whom were imprisoned in the late 90s for the political content in their comedy. They're not backward about coming forward when it comes to the subject of politics of their country. The act, which was performed by the youngest of the three in the ground floor of their home, contained some political jokes, stories of their heyday and the unfortunate fate of the eldest two siblings, and traditional dance performances, which to me seemed out of context but, in saying that, I still enjoyed them. For me, the stories of the trio's past escapades were the winning part of the show. Political comedy is lost on me, and I'd heard reviews claiming the show has been tamed and altered for their tourist audiences, which I can't comment on here, not without an educated view of Myanmar politics, but simply just to meet a zany interesting character I'd recommend paying them a visit.



The following day, over breakfast at my guesthouse, I had a squizz at my map and
realised how close I was to a popular breakfast spot, as recommended by travelfish.org. This travel website is so detailed in it's descriptions of South East Asia that I can follow their recommended itineraries word for word and end up in places I’d have picked out for myself. Their restaurant taste is identical to mine, so if they recommend an eatery, I go, simples. I suggest this site to anyone travelling in SEA, but don't take room rates as gospel, accommodation prices can go up in a heartbeat. So the restaurant of the day was Min Mahar, a bustling eating house on 26th Street, famed for it's local breakfasts. It opens at 6am and it's advised to arrive before 9am or most of the dishes sell out by then. I got there at around 9.30 and had about three dishes on the large menu to choose from. I sat and read from my Kindle, taking breaks to just watch the world go by, while groups of men (here we are again) read the paper or conversed. As the only foreigner in the place, I got a lot of attention from the curious staff who took to standing behind me to see what I was reading. The service is quick, possibly because there's no time wasted on walking to the kitchen to place the orders, they're just shouted from your table. I loved the frenetic energy of this place, what a great way to wake up to a new day.



 I took a wander down 26th street and happened upon a smiley, yet persistent, trishaw driver who gave me a pretty good deal on seeing the city's main sights. Everywhere you turn here you're faced with a motorcycle or trishaw driver, or even a school teacher (true story), trying to flog you a spin somewhere. When I told them I was just walking their faces dropped, nobody just walks. Yet another reason to believe that foreigners are mental. For 5000 kyats ($5), my smiley man, who introduced himself as Mawmaw, pedalled me through the city taking in temples, the stone masons area where statues are made, a teak carving workshop where I watched puppets come into being, a gold leaf workshop where three hardworking young fellas pelted the gold leaf flat with mallets, the process takes hours. It was hypnotic to watch the repetitive motion and listen to the rhythmic pounding. I found myself in a trance until a bus load of tourists showed up, shoving their DSLRs into every available space of the room, that's when I made my exit. My final stop was a Myanmar restaurant recommended by Mawmaw. Despite not being hungry after my double breakfast, I ordered beef curry and fried maize. Of course, in usual Myanmar fashion, my lunch was accompanied by soup and chopped vegetables with dips. My table for one was abundant with food, and my half full belly couldn't give it all a home.



After a rest, my trishaw chauffeur returned for a second trip to Mandalay Hill, where I could get an elevated view of the sun setting over the entire city. On my map Mandalay Hill deceptively looks like a hop, skip, and a jump away but, in fact, it's an hour long cycle, oh poor Mawmaw! I did warn him that foreigners are heavier than the people of Myanmar. On arrival he took a well deserved break while I had some exercise. I was told there are 1200 steps to the summit, and I felt every one of them. My tactic was to put my head down, switch off my thoughts, and climb. With statues and market sellers along the way there's a lot of visual stimulation, and each level is different in style. I was fooled several times in thinking I had made it to the top, only to walk around a Buddha statue to find even more steps. It seemed endless and as the tips of my hair brushed the back of my neck with tears of sweat I became increasingly aware of how unfit I am. Despite my original tactic, my thoughts swam to "how much farther?!" My reward at the top, known as Sutaungpyei (literally wish-fulfilling) Pagoda, was a panoramic view of Mandalay that stretched as far as the horizon. I watched the sunset as birds flitted across, silhouetted in the red glow. Mandalay Hill is one of the two places recommended in guide books for sunset, the other being U Bein Bridge, so the pagoda was mobbed with tourists and a few monks who dutifully posed for some snapshots. I predicted a mass exodus as soon as the sun disappeared behind the distant hills, so I exited quickly to avoid the mob. I met a man claiming to be a school teacher; he invited me to meet his students so they could practise learning English. I declined as I had planned to take a motorcycle taxi out of the city to explore the sights there. The conversation moved onto tourism, in which the teacher quizzed me on hotel and transport prices I've paid so far in this country and how they compare to Thailand. He informed me that he wanted to be a tour guide and expand across South East Asia. It took some on the spot mathematics to engage in his conversation. Then, naturally, he asked if I had transport back to my guesthouse (I knew it, I KNEW he was looking to do some sort of business!!) I told him I had someone waiting for me at the bottom and within the blink of an eye he took off, wishing me "goodbyehaveanicetrip", before disappearing down the stairs. I was left bewildered, my head still spinning from all the currency conversions he demanded. What was THAT all about?! Was he a teacher, a tour guide, or a taxi driver? Whatever his deal is, his distraction took my mind off the long descent and I was on the road before I knew it. Mawmaw pedalled me back to my guesthouse, where I thanked my lucky stars to have survived the day. There are a handful of traffic lights in the entire city so, at junctions, the etiquette is to keep driving and beeping to indicate you have no intention of stopping. That's all well and good if you're in a truck, but on my trishaw there was no horn, just a brave cyclist and a resigned foreigner. Whilst crossing busy junctions I'd look to my side to see a truck speeding along towards me and think, "This is it, this is how I die, goodbye world". But I didn't die, isn't that marvellous?! A bloody miracle is what it is.



In the early hours of the next morning I woke with throat and ear pain, as well as sinus congestion. I visited a pharmacy before breakfast and sorted myself out for a remedy for what I thought may be sinus infection, quite possibly owing to the thick polluted air in the city, or perhaps just good old fashioned bad timing. I decided to cancel my plan for the day, instead stocking up on water and snacks, firing up my kindle to watch a movie, and pop some pills. I wanted to be fit as a fiddle for my next adventure. My hermit status lasted til 4 o clock, when I just about went bananas in my little single room, so I caught a motorcycle taxi to a Western restaurant, called V Cafe, where I might get some comfort food and check out their rooftop bar for one last Myanmar sunset. I ordered the Jumbo Burger' which was your run of the mill cheap and tasteless 'pub' burger, and the 'serving' of chips turned out to be more of a garnish. I popped upstairs to the rooftop, which they open at 6pm, to a view of the roads below and the deafening noise of traffic. A little disappointed that the view was only eastwards so I couldn’t watch the sun set, I paid up and made my way back to my hotel to repack and have an early night. Not the most climactic end to such an incredible trip to Myanmar, but one who has travelled by hot air balloon cannot complain!



My taxi to the airport was shared by a chatty Canadian man, who talked AT me for an hour about the politics in Myanmar, religion, and terrorism, all without question super topics to discuss with a stranger. I zoned out and started playing a movie in my head, the one where the lady in a taxi rips off her own arm and beats a know-it-all tourist with it, have you seen it? My bubble was burst when he posed a question to me. Crap. I used a trick I learned in Thailand and smiled without speaking, hoping his question was rhetorical. It wasn't. Crap. I wiggled my way out by giving a generic and diplomatic answer, to which he continued gabbing on, vomiting his opinions and assumptions all over me. I thought conversation was a two way street! I sank back in my seat and returned to my in-head entertainment. I arrived in Bangkok in the late afternoon and, as soon as I checked into my bed for the night, I dropped my bag in search of something Irish, it was Paddy's Day! The first I’ve ever had without a silly hat on my head and a pint of the black stuff in my hand. The closest I could find was an Italian restaurant (at least it's the same continent!), called Wine Connection, and ordered a delicious pizza with artichoke and two glasses of yummy French Syrah Grenache, followed by a decadent chocolate mousse, all items on St Patrick's approved list of celebratory foods I'm sure. This St. Paddy's celebration was going to have to be a short one, as I had a 4am wake up call the following morning. I was bound for Sri Lanka, definitely worth missing out on a Shamrock Shake!

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Photos: Sinead Millea.

Wednesday 8 April 2015

คำอำลา


The final goodbye



The term ended in the blink of an eye, one minute I was dusting off my school shirt for a new year and the next my kids were walking the halls as Kindergarten graduates.  What happened, did I just wake from a coma?? 



I had been preparing myself for this moment for a while.  Although I still have no idea what the next chapter is going to be I felt ready to leave Nakhon Sawan and return home to see my family and friends back in Cork, a place that now only exists in my memory and on Skype.  But, no matter how much organisation I did, nothing could prepare me for the final goodbye, and I didn’t have any expectation of the amount of emotion I felt for these little people, who aren’t my family, who won’t remember me, but still played such a huge part of my life over the past eighteen months. 



The final month of school was packed solid with events.  The school celebrated it’s tenth anniversary and invited some local monks to bless the students and staff.  I accompanied my students on their school daytrips where we boarded the party bus pumping out dance tunes, I’m not sure if it was the accelorator or the dancing students that pushed the bus down the highway.  My students chattered in English as we marvelled at exotic birds at Chainat Bird Park and the massive tigers at Bung Chawak Zoo.  We pretended to be robots and sang our favourite songs over ice cream breaks.  We celebrated Yuwapat Day, an annual jubilee when the school exhibits crafts and performances created by the students over the school year, a bittersweet reminder of all we’d been through together. 



Finally the school term closed with the graduation ceremony for the K3 students, who are off to ‘big school’  in May.  This was also my own final day at Yuwapat.  I remembered the emotional send off the previous year, and dreaded the emotion I was feeling personally.  I got myself ready on the final morning of school, and took very great care in getting my ‘teacher face’ in place.  Regardless of my own departure and my own emotion, I was there to support my little ones, who were starting to feel the enormity of their very first crossroads.  We had been prepping for weeks on the big changes ahead, and how exciting they’d be, and how it was ok to be sad aswell.  We had it down, my babies would be ok.  Then I saw the tears, the floods of tears, here we go...!  I hugged them and gave them the usual pep talk, reminding them of all the great things about big school that we’d talked about before sending them off to their mammies in time for me to realign my ‘teacher face’ and head out to the crowd again.  They eventually filtered off, heading home, and away from me.  I returned to my classrooms to take down my teaching aids, and cleaned out my desk.  Once the kids were gone it felt like I was getting ready for a new beginning again.  Until the principal popped his head into the office...



I was one of three members of the foreign language staff to leave, aswell as two members of the Thai staff.  The Principal requested our attendance outside for a moment, to say goodbye.  The staff formed a circle around us and one by one gave us a hug.  The tears came like waterfalls.  The Thais do like emotional moments, whereas I, being a grand sturdy Irish girl, prefer to bury it down deep, away from public view, and maybe cry into a tub of ice cream later.  Needless to say I’ve piled on the pounds and Thai women are tiny, go figure.  It turned out to be a really lovely one to one goodbye with each the staff I’ve worked with over the eighteen months I spent at Yuwapat.  I got my chance to thank those who helped me when I was fresh out of my TEFL course without an ounce of teaching experience, those who translated parents’ comments on the report cards I sent home, and those who were as patient as saints when I screwed up my class schedule and didn’t turn up for class (this happened right up to the end, thank you Tc Kung for your endless patience!)  I got to thank the lady who cleaned up all my crap after I’d had crazy craft lessons where my monsters flung glue and paper all over the place, and the ladies who fed me every day.  I was so sad to say goodbye and I feared that my next school may not offer the same familial environment.  I’ve had a lot of frustrating moments trying to understand the Thai way, or as I heard it once, “the Thai way or the highway, baby”, but what I already remember most prominently about my experience at Yuwapat is the laughter in the hallways, the kind smiles from colleagues, and the constant offer of questionable snack foods, ie cockroaches were on offer one day but I kindly declined for I have a tub of ice cream in the freezer that I must cry into.



I recently read an online article written by an Australian guy who had spent six months in Thailand.  On his departure he writes about the things he will miss most about the country.  I read this list with a lump in my throat as it was very close to my own.  I’ll miss the jumpy little geckos who kindly eat the mosquitoes who unkindly eat me, the refreshing and cheap smoothies that come with a free Thai lesson courtesy of ‘Smoothie Guy’, the paradise islands a bus ride away, the beautiful hot hot sun, the ease with which I can get shit done minus red tape or queues, and the greetings of “where you go?” followed by unrequested directions without ulterior motives.  I could go on.



Goodnight Thailand, you are a dream that I had the privilege to make my reality.


 http://whatsdavedoing.com/11-things-miss-most-thailand/
https://www.facebook.com/yuwapatkindergarten
Photos: Sinéad Millea.

A weekend in ruins

Sukhothai National Park



Following my trip to Bali and Gili Trewangan the rest of 2014 filtered away gracefully.  I bid it farewell with a pot luck Christmas dinner on the porch with the rest of the teachers.  We donned our Santa hats, sang Christmas songs and served roast turkey in the 25 degree heat, and that was cold season.  I’m already nervous of the Irish weather, which I’m due to return to.  I had just enough time to digest the banquet before embarking on a short jaunt to Koh Tao for some much needed rest in the sunshine.  I was beginning to feel the urgency of my looming departure and decided a long weekend was better spent on the beach, despite the back breaking long journey.  A new year was once again rung in by the ocean, whilst floating a lantern that held my hopes for another incredible year ahead.  

Back in Nakhon Sawan the end of term was just around the corner and so was my big goodbye.  I soaked up as much time with the munchkins as I could, and could finally see the fruits of my labour as they excitedly formed sentences.  There were days when my lesson plan went out the window in favour of the conversations that organically flowed through the classroom.  Mind you, these are 5 and 6 year olds so the convos were frequently about Elsa, robots, and sharks.  One of my younger students once told me that he goes to school on a big brown dinosaur with red eyes.  I’m not sure where he parks it, but it might explain the delirious expression on the security guard’s face.


Yet again there was a long weekend to celebrate a Buddhist holiday, so I packed a bag and headed for Sukhothai, north of Thailand.  I’d been wanting to visit for a few months, but typically I keep the closest places til last as they’re “only up the road and I can go anytime”, but this blasé attitude usually results in my missing out on what’s on my doorstep.  Not this time, I headed for the bus station the evening before to check the bus times and returned bright and early the next day only to be told that the next bus was in 90 minutes.  This is a regular occurrence.  With the language barrier it’s difficult to explain the intricacies of any situation so a foreigner simply gets told “mai mee” (don’t have).  This can be frustrating when you’ve heard conflicting information or you can see what it is you want right there.  There may be some valid reason why it isn’t available, but when the person you’re speaking with has limited or no English you simply hear ‘don’t have’.  My advice in this case is to take a seat and wait.  This is one of those situations where the mantra I’ve adopted from Thailand comes in handy, “mai bpen rai”*.  Anyway, I got there and some hours later I was alighting and being shouted at by Tuk Tuk drivers.  I found a Sorngthaew that doesn’t rip off tourists and pretty soon I was bound for my guesthouse.  I chose the new city as I thought it would have the better choices of guesthouse and eateries, being “new”.  The new part of the city seemed quite large and with only two days and a scrambled brain I did not bother venturing further than my street, except to catch the bus to the old city.  The bus between the old and new Sukhothai is a painted wooden trailer containing long benches, like in a Sorngthaew, with a truck front, pretty cool and very cheap.  It stops just outside the park, where you purchase a ticket.  


The last bus back is 5pm and, as I was budgeting, a Tuk Tuk at tourist prices was out of the question so I was already too late to see any of the ruins.  I sauntered around, taking in bike hire prices and breakfast spots and jumped back on my wooden chariot for some dinner.  I found a cosy little restaurant on my street where I ordered steak and red wine and nestled in to read my book.  I was at a pretty riveting plot twist which just kept getting more and more exciting, so I ordered a second glass, and a third glass, until the words blurred and I had to take myself off to bed.  Goodnight Nana…



I woke with a thumping headache, a queasy feeling, and the guilt of threatening to ruin my short trip.  I wasn’t having any of this bad behaviour, I was going to get up and do what I had planned and I was going to learn my bloody lesson (I was using my ‘teacher voice’ on myself here).  I caught the bus to the old city and forced down some toast and coffee, before hiring a bicycle, so pink it looked like it was coughed up by My Little Pony, and headed for the park.  This was where the magic is, the Sukhothai National Park is filled with ancient ruins of temples and pagodas, and for the life of me I can’t differentiate between the two no matter how many people I’ve asked.  I had read on travelfish.org that there are many routes in and out of the park where beautiful views and pagodas can be found.  My crappy sense of direction ensured I only found one outside the park, however not even shite navigation can deter one from happening upon the beautiful ruins inside.  It’s an amateur photographer’s dream.  In fact most of Thailand is, one can photograph all around and appear to be super talented while the landscape and street life scenes do all the work just by being perfectly photogenic.  But I won’t tell anyone if you don’t.  The wind wisping through my hair as I glided along the pathways was a terrific hangover cure and I was myself in no time.




I finished up and handed back my girly pink bike in time to catch the last bus back to the new city.  Regretfully I looked back on the old city with the sun fading down into the horizon and dreamed of what it would be like to see it sink down behind the majestic pagodas.  I wished I had booked a place to stay here, it was closer to the beauty and the cafes had a better choice of fresh juices and ground coffee.  I guess I was being a typical tourist here, wanting western standards but as I’ve mentioned before, when you are eating Thai food all day every day it makes a nice change to have eggs and toast for brekkie whilst on vacation.  Anyway, first world problems.  All in all it was a much needed break after the craziness of Christmas, and ahead of the busy and emotional final term.  So, so, final.



*http://baanajarn.com/living-in-thailand/understanding-mai-bpen-rai/

http://www.travelfish.org/location/thailand/northern_thailand/sukhothai/sukhothai]
Photos: Sinéad Millea.